What a Girl expect from a Man

Most girls want a their guy who is at least somewhat attractive. Not that plain-looking guys never get dates, but it is true that girls are usually more interested in good-looking guys. I do my best to look past the outer appearance and see the guy for who he really is. Girls like guys to be caring and sensitive (not overly so -- more like, you know when to eager doing something that they don't like, or you can pick up on how they we're feeling, which is easier said than done).
Ever liked a girl too much that you get tongue-tied and just can't find the right words to say? Sometimes, you even end up saying the worst pick up lines and as a result, you embarrass yourself in front of a gorgeous girl. If you want to be a pick up artist, that which can get the attention of a girl, you need some proper coaching.
Different girls have different tastes. Don't be shy. If a guy likes someone, he should definitely flirt. Be playful. Being flirty is fun, but being flirty with everyone will probably scare a girl away because that may cause problems in the future. Just limit yourself to flirting with the girl you really like and don't be shy about asking a girl out. No risks means no results. Asking her out will show her you have courage and you aren't afraid of showing your feelings. Girls want someone that will always be there for them, so listen to them, give opinions, help them out through hard times. They want to feel beautiful. They want a guy that will always think she is beautiful, even all sweaty in her PE clothes.Most girls like a guy who can make her feel protected when she's with them. The way he stands next to her, the way he wraps his arms around her-you feel like nothing in the world can harm you. A guy who is very dependable: you call and it's like he's just been waiting for your call. Sensitive to your needs but not a wimp or a crier. He has a secured job who makes a decent amount of money. Example: He makes enough that if you had to stop working for a while he can support the both of you (even just temporarily)... never having to struggle. Educated, and thoughtful. Try to stay away from being mean, arrogant, loud and rude which are major turnoffs. Unlike men, women prefer a neat, decent romantic man. Looks are nice but not as important.

Find your Personality character by your First Letter

Does your name begin with: A?
U are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up-front person. You often don't get hints & you never pass any. Brains turn you on... You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating; otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. . Your mate's physical attractiveness is important for you. You tend to be very practical, & not very emotional. Your choices are very good & can only lead to trouble. You are very self satisfied & egoistic.

Does your name begin with: B?
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an statement of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your statement of endearments, and particular when it comes to love. You will hold off until everything meets with your approval. You can control your appetite & feelings. You require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to experiment.

Does your name begin with: C?
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and togetherness. You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sensual, needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to hold out on affection until you receive this. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.

Does your name begin with: D?
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full steam ahead in your suit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on. You are highly passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement' s, sometimes possessive and jealous. You are very sharp & talented often with sense of humor. When people bother to look deep inside they cannot resist what they see. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open attitude. You get jealous of other people and lose your temper.

Does your name begin with: E?
Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion. You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a while-it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important. But once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal.. You will fall asleep with a good book. Sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book to a lover.

Does your name begin with: F?
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate you can find. You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous and privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are a born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are a favorite fantasy past time. You can be a very generous lover..

Does your name begin with: G?
You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover. You respond to a lover who is your intellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be extremely active-never tiring out. Your duties and responsibilities take precedence over everything else. You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to people.

Does your name begin with: H?
You seek a mate who can enhance your zest for life, fun & everything you seek for. You will be very generous to your lover once you have attained a commitment. You are very affectionate & very strong. Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be very careful with your every move and equally cautious in your involvements often, as you believe that you have to look out for yourself. You are a sensual and patient lover. You will hold off till everything meets your full approval. You are a perfectionist, hard to satisfy and strong in your beliefs. Not influential, you always stand your ground. People can always count on you to stand by them in a crisis. You are a dreamer with a passion for life.

Does your name begin with: I?
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated. ..even worshiped.. You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh. You like necking spend hours just touching feeling & exploring. You look for lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of statement.. You bore easily and thus require adventure and change. Your commitments don't last very long & you often tend to stray. Loyalty is not one of your strong points. You are more sensual than sexual, but you are sometimes downright lustful.


Does your name begin with: J?
You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy. When used for a good cause there is nothing to stop you, except maybe that they aren't always used for the good. ( you could dance all night.) You respond to the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the mating game. You can carry on great romances in your head. At heart you are a roamer and need to set out on your own every so often. You will carry on long- distance relationships with ease. You are idealistic and need to believe in love. You have a need to be nurtured deep within.

Does your name begin with: K?
You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this. Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless.. You are kind-natured & sweet, which is found to be attractive by many.. You are a good friend.

Does your name begin with: L?
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You are free in your statement of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated.

Does your name begin with: M?
You may appear innocent, unassuming and shy; but we know that appearances can lie. When it comes to sex, you are no novice but something of a skilled technician. You can easily go to extremes, though, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole idea of love. You can be highly critical of your mate, seeking perfection in both of you. It is not easy to find someone who can meet your standards. You have difficulty expressing emotions and drawing close to lovers. You are often selfish, thinking you are always right no matter what. You never give in... Winning is your prime desire- at any cost. You often forget friends and family and you live for the moment.


Does your name begin with: N?
You are emotional and intense. When involved in a relationship, you throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense. You believe in total freedom. You are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of energy is inexhaustible. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate.. You also enjoy mothering your mate.. You often have the greatest love affairs all by yourself, in your head. You are very imaginative.

Does your name begin with: O?
You are very interested in fun activities yet secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your energy into making money and/or seeking we. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate lover, requiring the same qualities from your mate. Love is serious business; thus you demand intensity, diversity and is willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness, which must be kept in check.

Does your name begin with: P?
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of doing anything that might harm your image or reputation. Appearances count. Therefore, you require a good-looking partner.. You also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy...a good fight stimulates those vibes. You are relatively free of hang-ups. You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things. You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification.

Does your name begin with: Q?
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy. It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people because of their ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and conversation to turn you on and keep you going.


Does your name begin with: R?
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual.. You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal-the smarter the better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body. However, physical attractiveness is not very important to you. You have to be proved to be worthy for a partner. You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating & romantic.

Does your name begin with: S?
For you, it is pleasure before business. You can be romantically idealistic to a fault and is capable of much sensuality. But you never loose control of your emotions. Once you make the commitment you stick like glue. You could get jealous and possessive. You tend to be very selfish often regarding yourself as the only human being on the planet. You like being
the center of attention. You are very caring, sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. Turned on by soft lights, romantic thoughts. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role, or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind nature & sweet, which is found to be attractive by many.. You are a good friend.

Does your name begin with: T?
You are very sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. You like someone who takes the lead. Music, soft lights & romantic thoughts turn you on. You fantasize & tend to fall in & out of love soon. When in love you are romantic, idealistic, mushy & extremely. You enjoy having your senses & your feelings stimulated, titillated & teased. You are a great flirt. You can make your relationships fit your dreams, all in your own head. Once you put your mind to something you manage to stand by it and see your dreams through. You aren't very good at expressing your feelings. You like things your own way. You do not like change; you like to hold on to things. This may not always be good because if given an opportunity things may develop into great things. You work your way to the top. Attention must be given to what others say because even though you don't want to hear it their advice may turn ! out to save your life.

Does your name begin with: U?
You are enthusiastic & at you're happiest when in love.. When not in love you're in love with love and always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as challenge. You are a roamer & needs adventure, excitement freedom. You enjoy giving gifts & looking good. You
are willing to put others feelings above yours.

Does your name begin with: V?
You are individualistic & you need freedom, space & excitement. You wait till you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching her/him out. You feel a need to get into his/her head to see hat makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric types.. You believe that age is no barrier. You are good at responding to danger, fear & suspense.

Does your name begin with: W?
You are very proud, determined & refuses to take no for an answer when it come to love. Your ego is at stake all the time. You are romantic, idealistic, often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner for who she or he really is. You feel deeply about love & tends to throw all of your self into a relationship. Nothing is too good for your lover. You like laying love games.

Does your name begin with: X?
You need constant stimulation because you get bored quickly. You can handle more than 1 relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You can do 2 things at once. You are very talented.

Does your name begin with: Y?
You are sensual & very independent. If you can't have it your way, you will forget the whole thing. You want to control your relationships, which doesn't work out too well. You respond to physical stimulation. However if you can make money you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance.. You are open, stimulating & romantic.

Does your name begin with: Z?
You are very romantic but show feels that to love means to suffer. You wind up serving your mate & attracting people who have unusual trouble. You see yourself as a lover's savior

Hidden Affection Kills

Lately, I can't think of anything to post in here that's why today I decided that I'd post the one shot of Hidden Affections that had been sitting here in my computer for a while,The relationship coach returns, assuming straight talk on the bachelor mentality and how women can break through it.In this popular generation this message deliver to all singles and couples,i discovered all woman is find so hard to conquer their boy friend they end up scaring more than now.

it must be mis understood when we take the word lover as some abusive word in English,well it can said also some Romantic or love when we say that word "Lover"when we say some hidden love that we can put in our heart and make our relation ship in dreams.A love is profoundly trend and affection towards a person,which it is hard to express.When we took the real meaning of LOVE is a real lover is a person who works at a pro-assail tender, passionate affection for another person.The real lover in so many men tend to show their affection through money, gifts, sex or doing things for a woman.This issue is said to be on both side on both men and woman.Yet there's a part of every man that yearns to take off the mask. Inside every hidden lover is a man who would love to have the freedom to be expressive and feel safe enough to share his emotions.The hidden lover longs for pure open connection, emotionally an d spiritually, with his mate.Healing from pain in his past so it doesn't ruin his relationship

Rahman Life History

Websites dominate the Internet

Like many people today, I am in front of my computer more than 8hours a day. I do my work mostly through the internet. Technology sure has made a long way, because today, we could sit in our homes and still be able to keep in touch with our family and friends, and of course, our online social networks. And when I talk about social networks, internet and technology, there are three websites that comes to mind.

The Top 3 Websites Domination:

Twitter:
Twitter; love it or hate it, you can not deny that it is one of the most popular social networking sites in the world. I am one of those who am not particularly impressed by the micro-blogging website, however, I too was almost forced into making an account thanks to all the “interesting” people who choose to micro-blog on Twitter.Twitter is also one of those social networking medias that lets you share what’s on your mind in short, precise messages. You could even get updates from your friends, or even from celebrities who you choose to follow. It’s really an easy way to be in-the-know, without actually doing intensive research on a subject or on another person. You could let yourself be heard and let other people know your thoughts when you feel like it.

Facebook:
2009 was a breakout year for Facebook, even if some of its successes were overshadowed by its emerging rival. In fact, the two have been locked in a new battle for the soul of the web, and the right to be the platform where the world converses. To that end, Facebook’s 2009 has partly been about fighting back through the opening up of its data and profiles, a process we sometimes call Twitterification.I must say that Facebook is part of my daily life. Facebooking is one of my favorite activities. Many people have become quite addicted to it. Maybe because it lets you connect with people, not just your immediate family and friends, but those long time friends you haven’t talked to in ages, or find your long lost relatives. You could just as easily leave messages, posting on each other’s walls, and chat with them all in one website. Facebook truly changed the way we communicate with others

You tube:
We all have something to share. We all want to have our own videos put up in the internet for everyone to see. That’s what YouTube did right. That’s why it is very popular among “netizens”. You could share almost anything and everything, just remember to read the terms and conditions, privacy policies and what not. Though I don’t upload videos, I do enjoy browsing through the different videos, and even watch latest trailers through YouTube. :)

With the growing technology and people getting more and more great ideas, I believe that the internet would only get better through time. And maybe, in years to come, there will be more websites that will change our daily lives just like these medias have, and I am looking forward to enjoying how it’s going to unravel itself.

Does over caring or over loving a person create problems?

you can always over love someone in your mind and heart but if that person doesnt love you as much as you do then your going to find yourself very emoitionally hurt when it over. if your over caring for someone and over loving someone by showing it your going to creep that person out but it depends on what your defenition of "over" is.Sometimes we feel something slightly unpleasant, but because it's so subtle, we just accept it; we don't do anything about it. We rarely notice when we cross that line from GENUINE CONCERN into a draining counterproductive state of OVER CARE. Intellectually, it's a tricky distinction that varies from person to person. But from the heart's perspective, it's not so hard to figure out; OVER CARE DOESN'T FEEL GOOD."

it might create problems in terms of creeping the person out and making them want to be not with you too much. people need their space their own time no one likes to be smuthered all the time.To care is good, but too much is unpleasant. Let's be reminded that we are not the guardian of people's souls, God is. He is in charge, not the assistant. Our concern is okay however, if that is not guided by God, the product would still end up to SELF GLORIFICATION, clothed in good intention. For all moms, dads, leaders, bosses, girlfriends, boyfriends, wives, husbands, brothers, sisters and friends let's learn to respect and let people be what they are, giving people space to make up their minds than forcing what we want for them, releasing more than holding, learning to wait and respect God's plan for them rather with our own impulsive interventions.

Proverb:A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside

GO EARLY CLEAR UP THE CLUTTER OFFICE

According to garter group reports, office printing expenses consume one to three percent of an organisation's annual the average company $1,000

annually per employee for the cost of printing, copying,and faxing. traditional paper mangement and storage drains away uo to 3 percent of the revennues which could mean as much as $3oo,ooo in annual cost for a $10,00,000 company. now imagine the damage caused

to the environment keeping the manufacturing processes transportation needs, energy consumption and the vast paper used for offices for all scales in mind. according to one estimate, an employee spends 13.3 hours per week at a cost of $19,953 per year to create documents. yet most organisations underestimate their total print cost because they don't

have effective way to measure output. with intense competiton in this relatively new yet fast growing business vertical and with the sole focus being on improving efficiency, cost, security and environmental benifits, players are deploying a range

of proprietary energy saving technologies, devices and processes to monitor use, eliminate driver issues and address all the

environmental concers associated with printing. somebody rightly pointed out that environment benefits and cost savings can

go hand in hand if we use the right tachnology

KIM TRIPS, BREAKS HER TOE

kin kardashian has broken her toe. the socialite injured her foot after tripping over her suitcase at a new york hotel and is now in agony

she wrote on her twitter page, " i knew my clumsiness would catch up with me at some point. i tripped on a suitcase on the floor

and broke my toe.

even after a night's sleep kim's toe is still hurting her but is on the mend. she added in another tweet, "woke uo today with

my toe an unusuall shade of purple . at least it trying to cheer her up by feeding her up with chocolate.

in other posts she wrote, "thank you hotel staff for the little chocolate snack on my pillow. turn down sevice is everythg

sometimes milk chocolate makes everythg batter".

THURMAN'S STALKER VIOLATES PROBATION

um Thurman's stalker has violated his probation order which forbids him from contacting her. jack Jordan who was convicted in 2008 of fourth degree stalking and second degree aggravated harassment and ordered to seek psychiatric care as part of

his probation, called the actress repeatedly from his home state of Maryland, according to police. a source at the new york

police department revealed that Jordan tried to phone the actress to warn her that her boyfriend financier arpad buss on 'was

not good enough for her and that she should "marry" him. when he reached her assistant instead he reportedly demand

to know where uma was.

SALMAN BACK WITH A BANG

salman khan is back. after nearly a month of nursing an eye infection, salman is well again and is all set to resume the shooting

of anees bazmee's ready. salman first made his sunglasses on at the being human fashion show to launch designer watches.

after that due to his television commitments with big boss he continued shooting with his sunglasses on. and though he returned

without them last week, he was still uncomfortable. our source said "salman could not make public appearance and could The ruling attendant steams before the infinite disguise.

not shoot due to the infection. contrary to rumours, it was not cosmetic surgery to remove the bags under his eyes that had

him all red-eyed..

1000 screena booked for harry potter in tamil

harry potter soon speak Tamil. yes,harry potter and the deathly Holloway which is scheduled for an Indian release

on November 19 will be dubbed in Tamil simultaneously. ramanarayanan's banner sri thenandal pictures who are pioneers in procuring

Tamil dubbing rights of Hollywood blockers have bought its rights. the movie though releasing a little later than Diwali has managed to get

as many as 100 theatres all over Tamil nadu. speaking to this newspaper ramanarayanan said . "there is a big craze for harry

potter movies among Tamil audience. with the Halloween buzz. i won't be surprised if few ardent fans turn up to the theater

with harry potter costumes.

such a valuable day

i met a person today,he is the belong to a hr department,went for a interview.i just felt who i am today.he just saw my profile and asked me some few questions,and he asked me what is your goal.i said i don't have any goal.he smiled any thing important that you want to achieve in your life.i said not so really,i unique in my way.Again he smiled,said i was like you in my younger age,i don't know whats my goal and ambition,i am like you completed my degree and join in this company,where i don't gain any thing what i like.it was just in a hot seat waiting for some one to get rid off..i don't like what i need to do,i don't like what i want,i don't have any passion now..now totally i changed my career,so i don't want you also to do that,you better try for some corporate there you can get a good package and you wont waste life like me..i was just speechless.first time a HR person told me like this not the company you looking for your profile..i really had a nice talk at the end of the time he said ,you can call me i will do necessary help what you want.

now i realized what i should do.step in to success path now.i know my value now..

thank god.

I Roamed the whole chennai

ha got up at 9,but quiet energetic than yesterday.i went to merit trac (my previous company),saw some of my old friends,the new employees are so dumb and crazy,they don't want to interact with any one,even the guy who in charge is a too much show off,quiet dis-appointment.from there went to one consultancy with my favourite songs on my i -phone,which make me feel good while driving.

when i reach the place saw many people waiting for interview even i am the one of them.

Gopi(my friend)referred me with one guy over there finally interview done by a girl,quiet OK with her,then she told to go to some place where they clients recruiting some interviews,again with me usual thing i went there but quiet far,i took the wrong route .finally reach the place and i was shocked..

Ha i met one guy who is my PG met ,fucker i don't want to meet some people in my life till my death,but fate Wat to do..we dint spoke each other,i was just attend the interview and then came back to see my fellow me ts ashwin and kala.had a chat and some funny stuffs ,then went to aravazhi home had a good talk ,all technical stuffs if i go there.

my day went like that like stay,but quiet OK then s'day.good..see ya tomorrow

Active monday went sick monday

Today it was not so much big day for me,i got up at 11 went out with my mom to meet my uncle.i had a lecture with him for a hour,oh my god i hate this lecture.people who don't do anything can give this lecture.then i went to my office to meet my friend and that also not so good.he is busy in his job not satisfied with him,then the guy who spoke to me so negative,

oh my god how many things i need to face in my life.Then took my bike went pick my sister and drive home back,but i just felt some relax when i reach the home,cos my dad got some sweets which i like a lot.

Then usually flirt in face book with some girls,ha i like this ,morning full of pressure evening i felt good when i talk and flirt with some girls..

i like waiting for my dinner to finish,and going to see TE KAN movie once again..

the message is nothing i just want to remained what i did for the whole day,is nothing but jobless.ROFL