So you are ready for the dating drama. But before you get yourself in, don’t you like to know the men’s “pulse”? Men and women’s thinking are totally different from each other. Just because you love Pink and soft toys, you can’t expect men to like the same. I hope you do not want to make your Dating Drama a failure. Read this before you start.
1. Being “picky”
This is one of the biggest turn of for men. Women are fussy most of the time. But men hate “fussy” women. If you are meeting your date in a restaurant for the first time, try to give importance to him, not to the food. You can control your “diet” anytime, but not in your date. Men don’t have patience to see you counting the calories and eat accordingly. He might have spent a lot for this dinner. You are not only wasting the money, but his money.
Try enjoying the food. Show him that you love the food. Express it in words. He will love to hear you appreciating his selection of the food and restaurant.
2. Too much of demanding or too easy to handle.
Men like to chase. They like risks. They would love to fight hard and get a girl. At the same time they hate too much of demanding. Sure, they like you to take pride in your appearance and be feminine. However, do not be a proud red queen.
Do not make your love life so dull by being available always. You have to be tricky at times. You should know when to hold you back and when to loosen up.
3. Hairy Fairy
Well, men are hairy all over. But, they do not like the women in the same type. They are attracted to silk and smooth bodied women. You may like to be a hairy fairy or like being jungle. Nevertheless, it is a biggest NO-NO of men. Imagine of sleek and slender legs and hairless arms. How lovely they are. If you are a person who wears short skirts and sleeveless tops, you will look nice only when you remove your body hair.
Still you are not convinced; try removing your armpit and pubic hair at least. Health wise it is advisable to remove them. You may sweat a lot if you have armpit hair and it may leave stains in your dress.
4. Fishy body odor and bad breath.
I do not need to explain on this. It is not only a turn off for men but women too. It may end your relationship in your first day itself. I know we can’t simply blame a man or woman due to body odor. It could be due to their body condition or some medications which they intake.
Try following these. Have a shower using a good shower gel. Apply a good branded deodorant. Wear comfortable dress, which doesn’t make you sweat a lot. Avoid garlic and onions, at least on that particular date. Brush your teeth properly and clean your tongue by a tongue cleaner. Wash your mouth with salt water, which can kill the harmful bacteria that creates the bad breath. Try chewing mint chewing gums.
Note: Do not chew always as if you are a camel. It will just make men run away.
5. Do not talk about your ex always.
Guys do not wish to hear about your past. It is good that you do not want to hide anything from your life partner. But, do not use your first date to pour all your feelings on your ex. Don’t ever try comparing your lover with your ex. They hate it to the core. Your ex might be stinking rich or deadly handsome, but who cares? Focus on your present and future.
6. Drama queens.
Do not try sending him thousands of mails or keep on calling him every minute. Do not express your love always and say him how much you love him. It will just make him annoy. He knows you love him. You do not want to make him understand that by your every action.
The main point, which you need to keep in mind, is not cry as if you are in opera. Tears will make him turn off.
7. Being the ruler.
Let him do whatever he wants. Do not try controlling him always. He has his own world, friends, and work. Do not poke your nose into everything. You can’t expect him to have the type of friends you wish to associate with. You can’t tie a person by your relationship. Do not expect him to change him according to you. Love him for what he is.
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